life
Of Course We Stalk You
Social Media & Surveillance: Part 1
It is self-indulgent. It is small. And it is beneath every single one of us.
9 min read
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life
The posts that don't fit neatly into the other categories. Some opinions that I hold tightly. Others that I hold loosely.
11 posts
life
The Gossip Monger
Gossip, trust, and the relationships we dissolve by talking too much.
The person who knows everything is also the person who could share anything.
6 min read
lifetech
We Are Insufferable
Tech exceptionalism and the death of decorum.
We have made the social contract optional and called it a feature.
11 min read
lifetech
I Remembered, Then, That I Am a Woman
On being seen as a woman first and an engineer second
Competence, I am learning, is not always the only variable being evaluated.
12 min read
life
Too Many Cooks
A case for a much smaller circle of counsel.
The people who know you well are a very small group. Everyone else is just a stranger with an opinion.
10 min read
life
Expecting More
Goodness and morality and friends.
Should I build disappointment into the architecture of my friendships from the outset?
4 min read
techlifesudo
Language is Not Merely a Vessel
The language you prompt in is doing more work than you think.
Prompting is writing. And writing in a language is not the same as writing through it.
7 min read
life
The Cost of Reducing Friction
Fragmented thoughts on the weakening of social ties.
I'm not sure we completely understood what we were trading away.
7 min read
life
✦On Self-Worth
Conclusions from an existential crisis—straight from my Beli feed!
I began to understand, in my own distorted way, the concept of inherent value.
5 min read
lifereading
Grief and Goodbyes
From an old university project.
A reflection on the threads of human connection that remain, against all odds, unbroken.
3 min read
techlife
A Rude Awakening
An old blog post that I wrote about being a woman in competitive engineering spaces.
I could feel the ghost of the struggle that women in STEM face every day.
5 min read