life
✦The Perpetual Adversary
Archetypes I Have Encountered: 1
Confidence owned can hold its own—it does not require much upkeep. But confidence borrowed is a very needy little sham indeed.
5 min read
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life
The posts that don't fit neatly into the other categories. Some opinions that I hold tightly. Others that I hold loosely.
10 posts
life
Of Course We Stalk You
Social Media & Surveillance: Part 1
It is self-indulgent. It is small. And it is beneath every single one of us.
9 min read
life
The Gossip Monger
Gossip, trust, and the relationships we dissolve by talking too much.
The person who knows everything is also the person who could share anything.
6 min read
lifetech
We Are Insufferable
Tech exceptionalism and the death of decorum.
We have made the social contract optional and called it a feature.
11 min read
lifetech
I Remembered, Then, That I Am a Woman
On being seen as a woman first and an engineer second
Competence, I am learning, is not always the only variable being evaluated.
12 min read
life
Expecting More
Goodness and morality and friends.
Should I build disappointment into the architecture of my friendships from the outset?
4 min read
techlifesudo
Language is Not Merely a Vessel
The language you prompt in is doing more work than you think.
Prompting is writing. And writing in a language is not the same as writing through it.
6 min read
life
✦On Self-Worth
Conclusions from an existential crisis—straight from my Beli feed!
I began to understand, in my own distorted way, the concept of inherent value.
5 min read
lifereading
Grief and Goodbyes
From an old university project.
A reflection on the threads of human connection that remain, against all odds, unbroken.
3 min read
techlife
A Rude Awakening
An old blog post that I wrote about being a woman in competitive engineering spaces.
I could feel the ghost of the struggle that women in STEM face every day.
5 min read